LGBTQ + family planning | Mental treatment guide for treatment 101

Your path to parenting – what to expect and how to prepare

Cisgenres lesbian couples

For many lesbian cis couples, the decision to build a family can start with a conversation around:

Dr. Ikhena-Abel recommends starting with an in-depth assessment of fertility for both partners:A

“If the two partners have the reproductive age and / or interested in the use of their eggs, I recommend that they both obtain a complete assessment of fertility. The results can influence treatment planning and how they choose to move forward. ».

Another early step is the genetic screening of carriers – this can help you find a cum donor that is compatible with genetic profiles from the two partners.

Cisgenres gay couples

For gay cis male couples, treatment will often involve:

1. An egg donor
2. A gestational carrier

Some couples can face sorrow or uncertainty so as not to be able to bring pregnancy themselves, or around which the partner will share a genetic connection.

Dr Ikhen-Abs:

“They can decide whether they both want to have a genetic link or not. In many cases, couples can opt for a split – for example, half of the eggs with the sperm of each partner – or they can make a cycle with the sperm of one partner and come back later with the other. »»

These decisions are super personal and can evoke certain emotional barriers and complex emotions. He can help tackle them slowly, together, with support for advice.

Trans and non -binary parents

Transgender and non -binary people can face different emotions and challenges – especially if medical transition is believed with family planning and fertility treatment. »»

Dr. Ikhena-Abel encourages open conversations early with a fertility specialist:A

“I would advise trans patients to have a frank conversation with a fertility specialist on their fertility preservation options – for example, freezing eggs or freezing of sperm – early in the process.

Preservation of fertility can be stimulating, but it can also evoke gender dysphoria, or in conflict with your sense of self.

Having an affirmation supplier who listens without judgment can make all the difference here.